Please let yourself be proud of small things. Please do that. Please allow yourself to get really excited about playing a video game well or sending an ask you were nervous about or letting a bug outside or peeling the whole orange in one try. Please get so excited about that. Please. That’s so cool I’m so glad you did it.
Suicidal people deserve better than to be told the main reason they shouldn’t kill themselves is because of how it might effect others.
Suicidal people deserve love and help, not guilt trips.
Suicidal people deserve to feel like their life is worth living, for their own sake… for their own happiness, their own experiences, their own possibilities, their own future.
THIS
Date a boy who is supportive of whatever your body looks like no matter what
everyone on this site needs to just like chill or something why is everything problematic it’s like you can’t like something without it being problematic me “i like grapes” someone else “what you like grapes??? isn’t wine made from grapes so you endorse drinking alcohol oh my-” maybe i just like grapes
Fat people aren’t inspirational only after losing weight. Fat people with no desire to lose weight are inspirational. Fat people who are struggling with eating disorders are inspirational. Fat people who are surviving despite their hardships are inspirational. Fat people who have to hear that they are gross or unworthy of love and care are inspirational. Fat people who love themselves in a world that insists on tearing them down are inspirational.
all i see are posts about how girls are suppose to be strong and confident and not take shit, but some girls arent like that some girls are shy or quiet or have anxiety issues or theyre insecure or have mental illnesses, so heres to all of them because they dont get appreciated enough
if wearing makeup doesn’t make cis guys any less male then it doesn’t make trans guys any less male either
To anyone needing it:
You are trans enough. You are nonbinary enough. There’s no “right” way to be trans/nonbinary.
It’s okay to be nonbinary/transmasculine and to have a feminine gender expression at the same time.
It’s okay to be nonbinary/transfeminine and to have a masculine gender expression.
You are valid!
do you ever see a picture of someone with a body like yours and you’re momentarily comforted like they look pretty good…i probably look good too
which is why fat representation is so so important
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Things that I, a women’s bathroom user, am fine with:
- trans women using the bathroom with me
- trans men who feel uncomfortable or unsafe in the men’s room using the bathroom with me
- nonbinary people who want to use the women’s room using the bathroom with me
Things that I am not fine with:
- someone being super uncomfortable in my bathroom because a transphobic clueless lawmaker is forcing them to be there
Things I am also not comfortable with
* Cis men invading the bathroom to remove a woman they don’t think belongs there.
I believe my findings indicate that all LGBT+ people are great. No exceptions. Science has spoken.
If you think that representation doesn’t matter, that’s probably because you’re already represented.
IF YOU THINK REPRESENTATION DOESN’T MATTER, THAT’S PROBABLY BECAUSE YOU’RE ALREADY REPRESENTED.
The name you choose for yourself is your real name.
The gender that you identify as is your real gender.
The pronouns that you prefer are your real pronouns.
What you have chosen to do with your body (staying as is, transitioning, etc.) is exactly how said body is supposed to be, and is your real body.
Your definitions of yourself are what makes the real you.
Always.